Concretely, start from what "research use only" actually means, because most of the downstream questions are answered by it. It means no release testing, no pharmacovigilance, no regulatory obligation to you, and no recourse.
What a verification listing at VendorInvestigate or a rating at PeptideMeter actually evidences is that some process was applied — which is more than nothing and considerably less than an audit. The useful question is what the process consists of and whether its inputs are independently obtained samples or vendor-supplied ones.
On declarations: the accurate description of a research reference material is a research reference material, and accuracy is both the legal position and the practical one. A declaration that misdescribes the contents converts a customs question into a different kind of question, and it does so on a document with your name on it.
The economics of pooled purchasing are not specific to this field, and the failure modes documented in the general literature on informal collective purchasing — organiser default, quality dispute without adjudication, and free-riding on testing costs — are exactly the ones that recur here.
One qualification: independent testing tells you about the vial you sent. It tells you about the vial you kept only under an assumption of homogeneity that nobody has tested.
The evidence you want is boring: the same result, from an independent laboratory, across more than one lot, over more than one year.